Genesis 39:10 · Bible study
Genesis 39:10 Commentary: Joseph's Daily Refusal
Hebrew · 7 what the commentators say
Meaning in one sentence
What gave Joseph strength to say no day after day? This study of Genesis 39:10 explores perseverance, avoidance, and the fear of God at work in his resistance.
Research Summary
- Meaning: Despite daily pressure, Joseph refused to listen, lie beside, or even be with Potiphar's wife.
- Key words: Yom yom (day by day), unrelenting repetition; sha‛ama‛ (hearkened), obedient listening; shakav etzlah (lie beside), proximity, possibly sexual; hayah immah (be with her), presence avoided.
- Main debate: None significant. Commentators agree that Joseph's refusal was complete and persistent, though there is minor variation on whether "lie by her" implies lesser contact than full intercourse.
- Theological theme: The fear of God as the foundation for sustained moral resistance. Joseph's refusal was not merely practical but grounded in his relationship with God (v.9).
- Best use: Teaching on temptation, perseverance, and the role of avoidance as a biblical strategy; also a case study in how God's presence enables faithful choice.
Translation Comparison
BSB Berean Standard Bible 2020
Although Potiphar’s wife spoke to Joseph day after day, he refused to go to bed with her or even be near her.
WEB World English Bible 2000
As she spoke to Joseph day by day, he didn’t listen to her, to lie by her, or to be with her.
KJV King James Version 1769
And it came to pass, as she spake to Joseph day by day, that he hearkened not unto her, to lie by her, or to be with her.
ASV American Standard Version 1901
And it came to pass, as she spake to Joseph day by day, that he hearkened not unto her, to lie by her, or to be with her.
YLT Young's Literal Translation 1898
And it cometh to pass at her speaking unto Joseph day by day, that he hath not hearkened unto her, to lie near her, to be with her;
Darby Darby Bible 1890
And it came to pass as she spoke to Joseph day by day and he hearkened not to her, to lie with her [and] to be with her,
Douay-Rheims Douay-Rheims Bible 1899
With such words as these day by day, both the woman was importunate with the young man, and he refused the adultery.
Translations in other languages (10 available)
Y fué que hablando ella á José cada día, y no escuchándola|strong="H8085, H0413" él para acostarse al lado de ella, para estar con ella,
E foi que falando ela a José cada dia, e não escutando-a ele para deitar-se ao lado dela, para estar com ela.
Quoiqu’ elle parlât tous les jours à Joseph, il refusa de coucher auprès d’ elle, d’ être avec elle.
Und sie trieb solche Worte gegen Joseph täglich. Aber er gehorchte ihr nicht, daß er nahe bei ihr schliefe noch um sie wäre.
En het geschiedde, als zij Jozef dag op dag aansprak, en hij naar haar niet hoorde, om bij haar te liggen, en bij haar te zijn;
E bench’ella gliene parlasse ogni giorno, Giuseppe non acconsentì, né a giacersi né a stare con lei.
I stało się, gdy ona namawiała Józefa na każdy dzień, a on jej nie zezwalał, aby spał z nią, albo bywał z nią:
Когда так она ежедневно говорила Иосифу, а он не слушался ее, чтобы спать с нею и быть с нею,
後來 她天 天 和 約瑟 說，約瑟卻不 聽從 她，不與她同 寢，也不和她 在一處。
And day after day she went on requesting Joseph to come to her and be her lover, but he would not give ear to her.
Verse in Context
Original Language (Biblical Hebrew)
Old Testament · Biblical Hebrew · Genesis 39:10
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Scholars' Consensus
Commentators across Reformed and evangelical traditions agree that Genesis 39:10 highlights the persistence and completeness of Joseph's refusal. Calvin commends his "constancy," noting that a genuine fear of God enabled him to stand invincible against repeated attacks. Gill observes that Joseph would not even give her a hearing, avoiding not only the act but also her company, a strategy Wesley echoes: "Those that would be kept from harm, must keep themselves out of harm's way." The Hebrew repetition yom yom ("day by day") underscores the relentless nature of the temptation, while the verb sha‛ama‛ ("hearkened") carries the sense of obedient compliance, Joseph refused to yield even a listening ear. Together, these elements show a man whose trust in God equipped him for sustained, day-after-day resistance.
How settled is the interpretation?
Interpretive difficulty: Low
What is clear: Joseph's repeated refusal was rooted in his fear of God (v.9) and his determination to avoid even proximity to sin, and the verse presents his response as a pattern of faithful resistance sustained over time.
What Scholars Agree and Debate
| Topic | Agreed | Debated |
|---|---|---|
| Meaning of 'lie by her' (shakav etzlah) | It refers to some form of sexual intimacy or proximity that Joseph refused. | Gill suggests it may mean lying near her in a different chamber, a lesser degree than full intercourse, while other readers take it as a euphemism for any sexual act. All agree the intent was inappropriate and Joseph refused completely. |
| Role of divine grace vs. human will | All interpreters see God's presence as foundational (39:2,21) and Joseph's choice as genuine. | Calvin emphasizes "the extraordinary power of the Spirit" enabling Joseph; other commentators (Wesley, Henry) focus more on Joseph's practical wisdom and active avoidance. Both affirm that God worked through Joseph's faithful decisions. |
| Persistence of the temptation | The phrase 'day by day' indicates a prolonged, repeated enticement. | No real debate. Commentators uniformly note the relentless nature of the pressure, but some (Calvin, Henry) use it to highlight Joseph's sustained constancy, while others (Gill) emphasize the need for increased grace to resist such urgency. |
| Application of avoidance strategy today | Avoiding proximity to temptation is a biblical principle (Proverbs 5:8). | Some Christians argue that avoidance is not always possible in shared households or workplaces; others hold that Joseph’s model shows it is always the safest path. The verse does not address every context, but the principle is widely affirmed. |
Historical & Cultural Context
Genesis 39 places Joseph in an Egyptian household as a trusted slave. The narrator has already noted that "the LORD was with Joseph" (39:2) and that Potiphar left everything in his charge (39:6). Against this backdrop of favor and responsibility, the temptation arrives through the master's wife, a woman of status who could endanger his position or even his life. She speaks "day by day," a Hebrew idiom (yom yom) that stresses unrelenting pursuit. Joseph's response, given in verse 10, summarizes his policy: he refused to listen, to lie beside her, or even to be in her company.
The surrounding verses show the reasoning behind this refusal. In verse 8-9, Joseph appeals to the trust his master has placed in him and, more critically, to his accountability before God: "How then can I do this great wickedness, and sin against God?" The phrase li/h.yot immah ("to be with her") shows that Joseph avoided not only sexual sin but also proximity that might lead there. Matthew Henry notes the impudence of the woman and the integrity Joseph maintained. Poole's Annotations comments that Joseph "avoided her company and familiar conversation," recognizing the danger of proximity. The repeated rejection over days, likely weeks or months, tests his character under sustained pressure. This historical context underscores that Joseph's resistance was not a single dramatic act but a daily discipline rooted in the fear of God.
Textual Notes
The supplied commentaries note no significant textual variants for Genesis 39:10. The Hebrew text is stable across manuscript traditions. The main variation among English versions lies in translation style: older versions (KJV, ASV, YLT) render "he hearkened not unto her," while modern versions (WEB, BSB) use "didn't listen" or "refused." The underlying Hebrew verb shama‛ remains the same, and none of the supplied sources question the authenticity of the verse.
Reception History
From early Christian writers to Reformation-era commentators, Joseph has been held up as a model of chastity and perseverance under pressure. The Geneva Bible notes that Joseph "hearkened not unto her, to lie with her, or to be in her company," emphasizing the completeness of his avoidance. Calvin and Matthew Henry both draw from this verse lessons on the fear of God as the only sure defense against ongoing temptation. In the broader tradition, Joseph’s refusal is often paired with Proverbs 5-7 as a practical illustration of fleeing sexual sin. His story has long served as an encouragement for believers facing persistent enticements, a reminder that daily faithfulness is possible through the grace of God.
Preaching This Verse
Three-point outline
- Temptation often comes repeatedly through relationships. The phrase "day by day" shows that temptation may not be a one-time event. Joseph faced an ongoing enticement from someone in a position of authority over him.
- Refusal that avoids even proximity. Joseph bypasses the first step by not listening, not lying beside her, not even being with her. Wesley says: "Those that would be kept from harm, must keep themselves out of harm's way."
- The fear of God sustains daily perseverance. Joseph's earlier words (v.9) set his moral compass: sin is first against God. Calvin calls this a "real fear of God" reigning in his mind, which made him "stand forth, to the last, the conqueror of all temptations."
Five-point outline
- Joseph's position of trust (v.8).
- His reasoning: betrayal of his master and sin against God (v.9).
- His daily, consistent refusal (v.10).
- His final flight when cornered (v.12).
- God's continued presence through the trial (v.21-23).
Illustration hooks
- A colleague who repeatedly asks you to bend ethical rules, always pressing the boundary a little more.
- A streaming service algorithm that keeps suggesting content you've chosen to avoid, pushing at the edges of your resolve.
- A friend or neighbor who persistently crosses conversational boundaries, testing your commitment to faithfulness in marriage.
Questions your congregation is asking
- How do I say no when the person I work for or with keeps asking?
- What if the temptation is not purely physical but also emotional, a gradual pull?
- Is it enough simply to avoid the person, or should I also confront the situation?
Leading a Discussion
Joseph's stand in Genesis 39:10 was not a single heroic moment but a pattern of refusal sustained over time. This passage invites us to examine both the persistence of temptation and the resources God gives for day-by-day faithfulness.
Discussion questions
- What stands out to you about the phrase "day by day"? How does that change how you view Joseph's resistance?
- Joseph not only refused the act itself, he would not lie beside her or even be with her (v.10). Why do you think the narrator includes these details?
- Read Genesis 39:8-9. What reasons does Joseph give for refusing? How does his view of sin ("sin against God") shape his actions?
- Wesley comments that Joseph kept "out of harm's way." In what situations might avoidance be the wisest spiritual strategy? Are there times when it is not possible?
- Calvin emphasizes that the "fear of God" enabled Joseph to stand. What does the phrase "fear of God" mean to you, practically? How can that be cultivated?
- Verse 10 serves as a summary before the specific crisis in verses 11-12. How did Joseph's daily pattern prepare him for the moment when she grabbed him?
- Think of a persistent temptation you face, not necessarily sexual. What one step could you take this week to "keep yourself out of harm's way"?
Word Study
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Cross-References
Source: Treasury of Scripture Knowledge (TSK, public domain)
| Genesis 39:8 | But he refused, and said to his master’s wife, “Behold, my master doesn’t know what is with me in the house, and he has put all that he has into my hand. |
| Proverbs 1:15 | my son, don’t walk on the path with them. Keep your foot from their path, |
| Proverbs 2:16 | to deliver you from the strange woman, even from the foreigner who flatters with her words, |
| Proverbs 5:3 | For the lips of an adulteress drip honey. Her mouth is smoother than oil, |
| Proverbs 5:8 | Remove your way far from her. Don’t come near the door of her house, |
| Proverbs 6:25 | Don’t lust after her beauty in your heart, neither let her captivate you with her eyelids. |
| Proverbs 6:26 | For a prostitute reduces you to a piece of bread. The adulteress hunts for your precious life. |
| Proverbs 7:5 | that they may keep you from the strange woman, from the foreigner who flatters with her words. |
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What the Commentators Say
7 public-domain commentaries, condensed into plain language.
Calvin's Commentaries Reformed 1564
Calvin focuses on how dangerously easy it is to fall when temptation comes through another person, since we imagine sharing the blame makes us less guilty. Joseph’s steadfast resistance shows an extraordinary fear of God, making him invincible against every repeated seduction.
Geneva Bible Notes Reformed 1599
Joseph refused not only the act of adultery but also any close company with his master's wife, avoiding even the occasion for sin. The commentator stresses this careful separation as a model of godly caution.
Gill's Exposition of the Bible Baptist 1748
Gill emphasises that Joseph faced not a single temptation but daily, urgent pressure from Potiphar's wife, which made his resistance require special grace and strength. Joseph not only refused her request but also avoided listening to her or being near her, guarding himself against the danger of being gradually overcome.
Keil & Delitzsch OT Commentary Protestant 1876
Keil-Delitzsch notes that the phrase "at that time" points to the exact day the writer has in mind, when Joseph entered the house for his duties and found no other servants inside. This specific timing, with the house empty, sets the scene for the intensity of the temptation and Joseph's decisive flight.
Lange's Commentary Reformed 1857
Lange contrasts Joseph with Judah from the previous chapter: Judah fell into sexual sin, but Joseph resists temptation and shines as a model of chastity. For Lange, Joseph's suffering here is particularly significant because it comes not from any fault but directly from his virtue and fear of God, making it a type in redemptive history.
Matthew Henry's Commentary Reformed/Presbyterian 1710
Henry focuses on the woman's shameless impudence, calling her a disgrace to her sex. He warns that her sin began with the eye, making remarkable beauty a dangerous snare that requires constant watchfulness and a covenant with the eyes.
Wesley's Explanatory Notes Methodist/Wesleyan 1754
Wesley notes that Joseph did not merely stop listening to Potiphar’s wife; he refused to stay near her at all. The clear lesson is that avoiding temptation itself is the surest way to be kept from sin. This shows that the safest course is to remove oneself from harmful situations entirely.