Psalms 25:14 · Bible study
Psalms 25:14 Commentary: The Intimate Friendship of Yahweh
Hebrew · 11 what the commentators say
Meaning in one sentence
Explore the meaning of 'the secret/friendship of Yahweh' in Psalm 25:14 and how God reveals His covenant to those who fear Him.
Research Summary
- Meaning: Yahweh shares intimate friendship and reveals His covenant to those who reverence Him.
- Key words: סוֹד (sod, friendship/secret), יָרֵא (yare, fearing/revering), בְּרִית (berit, covenant), הוֹדִיעַ (hodi'a, make known/experiential knowledge).
- Main debate: Whether sod emphasizes a hidden secret or a close relationship; and whether “show them his covenant” refers to understanding the Mosaic covenant or experiencing God’s saving plan.
- Theological theme: Intimate communion with God is the reward of reverent trust; knowledge of the covenant is relational, not merely intellectual.
- Best use: A promise to anchor prayer (like David’s) and to encourage believers that God desires to be known personally.
Translation Comparison
BSB Berean Standard Bible 2020
The LORD confides in those who fear Him, and reveals His covenant to them.
WEB World English Bible 2000
The friendship of Yahweh is with those who fear him. He will show them his covenant.
KJV King James Version 1769
The secret of the Lord is with them that fear him; and he will shew them his covenant.
ASV American Standard Version 1901
The friendship of Jehovah is with them that fear him; And he will show them his covenant.
YLT Young's Literal Translation 1898
The secret of Jehovah is for those fearing Him, And His covenant--to cause them to know.
Darby Darby Bible 1890
The secret of Jehovah is with them that fear him, that he may make known his covenant to them.
Translations in other languages (9 available)
El secreto de Jehová es para los que le temen; y á ellos hará conocer su alianza.
O segredo do SENHOR é para os que o temem; e ele lhes faz conhecer seu pacto.
L’ amitié de l’ Éternel est pour ceux qui le craignent,
Das Geheimnis des HERRN ist unter denen, die ihn fürchten; und seinen Bund läßt er sie wissen.
Samech. De verborgenheid des HEEREN is voor degenen, die Hem vrezen; en Zijn verbond, om hun die bekend te maken.
Il segreto dell’Eterno è per quelli che lo temono, ed egli fa loro conoscere il suo patto.
Tajemnica Pańska objawiona jest tym, którzy się go boją, a przymierze swoje oznajmuje im.
耶和華 與敬畏他的人 親密；他必將自己的約 指示他們。
The secret of the Lord is with those in whose hearts is the fear of him; he will make his agreement clear to them.
Verse in Context
Original Language (Biblical Hebrew)
Old Testament · Biblical Hebrew · Psalms 25:14
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Scholars' Consensus
Commentators agree that the Hebrew word sod (H5475) describes intimate, confidential fellowship, not mere possession of hidden information. Barnes defines it as "the intimacy of friendship" with God. Keil and Delitzsch note that sod originally meant a close-pressed circle for shared confidences. The Cambridge Bible links it to Genesis 18:17 and Amos 3:7, where God reveals His plans to His servants. There is broad agreement that "those who fear Him" refers to reverent worshippers, not terrified slaves (Gill, Calvin). The second line, "He will show them his covenant", is understood as experiential knowledge. Matthew Henry calls it "the secret of his love." Wesley says God makes them "clearly to understand" both the duties and blessings of the covenant. The consensus is that this verse promises an intimacy with God that leads to a deep, lived understanding of His covenant.
How settled is the interpretation?
Interpretive difficulty: Medium
Main views:
- Secret as hidden mystery: KJV's 'secret' emphasizes that God's hidden counsel is revealed only to the pious, supported by cross-references like Amos 3:7.
- Secret as friendship: Modern translations like WEB and BSB focus on the relational aspect, supported by Proverbs 3:32 and the lexical range of sod as 'circle of confidants'.
What is clear: God grants intimate knowledge of Himself and His covenant to those who revere Him—a relational understanding, not just information.
What Scholars Agree and Debate
| Topic | Agreed | Debated |
|---|---|---|
| Translation of sod (סוֹד) | All major traditions agree that the word denotes intimate fellowship or confidential communication between God and the faithful. | Some prefer 'secret' (KJV, YLT) highlighting hidden divine counsel; others prefer 'friendship' (WEB, ASV, BSB) emphasizing relational closeness. Both are lexically possible. |
| Meaning of 'those who fear him' | Agreed that 'fear' here describes reverent trust and worship, not terror. | Some traditions emphasize awe and obedience (Calvinistic), others emphasize trust and love (Wesleyan). Both see it as a positive posture. |
| Nature of covenant revelation | Agreed that 'show them his covenant' means experiential, not merely intellectual, knowledge. | Interpreters differ on which covenant is primarily in view: the Mosaic covenant of law (older Reformed), the covenant of grace (Gill, Henry), or the new covenant in Christ (Clarke). |
| Application to believers | Agreed that the promise is for all who genuinely fear God, not a spiritual elite. | Some (e.g., medieval mystics) have read it as describing a special contemplative state; others (Reformers) insist it describes the normal Christian life of faith. |
Historical & Cultural Context
Psalm 25 is an acrostic (alphabetical) psalm, composed when David was under distress, outward afflictions compounded by inward awareness of sin (Poole). The structure moves through prayer for guidance and pardon to meditations on God's goodness, with verse 14 at the center as a promise anchoring David's hope.
In ancient Israel, the word sod described a council or circle of trusted friends who share secrets. Kings had an inner circle; Proverbs 3:32 says that while the perverse are an abomination to Yahweh, "his friendship is with the upright." David applies this royal imagery to God: Yahweh has a group of intimates, those who fear Him, and to them He opens His heart.
Covenant (berit) was the backbone of Israel's relationship with God: from Abraham (Genesis 17) to Sinai (Deuteronomy 4:13) to the promised new covenant (Jeremiah 31:31, 34). David knows the covenant as a legal bond; but here he prays for its personal revelation. The verb hodi'a (to make known) implies not just information, but knowledge born of relationship, like a friend who unveils his intentions and character. This psalm, set in the wisdom tradition, teaches that true understanding of God's covenant comes through reverent closeness, not mere study.
Textual Notes
The consulted sources note no significant textual variants for this verse. The acrostic structure of Psalm 25 is incomplete (missing the qoph strophe and with a double resh), but this does not affect the reading of verse 14.
Reception History
Psalm 25:14 has been treasured across Christian history as a promise of divine intimacy. Early church writers saw it as foretelling the revelation of Christ and the mysteries of the faith. Medieval mystics used it to describe contemplative union with God. The Reformers, especially Calvin, emphasized that it underscores the personal character of saving faith: true knowledge of God comes through reverence and trust. In the Wesleyan tradition, Adam Clarke applied it to the assurance of sins forgiven and the covenant of redemption in Christ. Baptists like John Gill expanded it to include all the deep things of God revealed by the Spirit. The verse has frequently been quoted in devotional works on the fear of the Lord and sung in hymns that celebrate God's faithfulness to those who revere Him.
Preaching This Verse
Three-point outline
- The secret friendship of God. The Hebrew sod pictures a circle of confidants. God invites reverent believers into that circle, sharing His heart and plans.
- The fear that opens the door. Fear here is reverence, not terror. It is the posture that takes God seriously, obeys His word, and trusts His character.
- The knowledge that transforms. God "shows them his covenant", not as a document to be analyzed, but as a relationship to be experienced. This knowledge brings peace, guidance, and hope.
Five-point outline
- God desires communion, not distance.
- Reverent fear is the foundation for intimacy.
- Secrets are shared among friends (John 15:15).
- The covenant is revealed through lived experience.
- This promise sustains prayer in times of trouble.
Illustration hooks
- A trusted employee is given the password to the company vault, access that comes only after proven loyalty.
- A child who consistently honors a parent is gradually entrusted with deeper family stories and responsibilities.
- Marriage moves from a signed contract to intimate knowledge of the other's heart over years of faithfulness.
Questions your congregation is asking
- “How do I know if I really ‘fear’ God, or if I’m just going through the motions?”
- “Why does God seem hidden from me when I’m trying to follow Him?”
- “Does this verse promise special revelation to a few super-spiritual people, or is it for everyone?”
Leading a Discussion
Psalm 25:14 sits at the heart of a prayer David offered while surrounded by trouble. He moves from asking for pardon to claiming a promise: those who fear God enjoy His intimate friendship and understand His covenant. This promise invites us to consider what it means to know God personally.
Discussion questions
- Read Psalm 25:10, 14 as a group. How does verse 14 connect to the verses immediately before and after it?
- The Hebrew word sod can be translated “secret,” “counsel,” or “friendship.” Which translation speaks most to you, and why?
- What does it mean to “fear” Yahweh in this context? How is this different from being afraid of God?
- In what ways have you experienced God “showing you his covenant”, helping you understand His promises or His ways more deeply?
- How does intimate knowledge of God differ from head knowledge about God? What helps move you from one to the other?
- David prays for forgiveness in verse 11 right before these promises. How does confessing sin relate to the fear of God and to knowing Him more closely?
- What practical step could you take this week to cultivate a reverent fear that leads to deeper friendship with God?
Word Study
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Cross-References
Source: Treasury of Scripture Knowledge (TSK, public domain)
| Genesis 17:13 | He who is born in your house, and he who is bought with your money, must be circumcised. My covenant shall be in your flesh for an everlasting covenant. |
| Genesis 18:17 | Yahweh said, “Will I hide from Abraham what I do, |
| Genesis 18:19 | For I have known him, to the end that he may command his children and his household after him, that they may keep the way of Yahweh, to do righteousness and justice; to the end that Yahweh may bring on Abraham that which he has spoken of him.” |
| Deuteronomy 4:13 | He declared to you his covenant, which he commanded you to perform, even the ten commandments. He wrote them on two stone tablets. |
| Proverbs 3:32 | For the perverse is an abomination to Yahweh, but his friendship is with the upright. |
| Jeremiah 13:18 | Say to the king and to the queen mother, “Humble yourselves. Sit down, for your crowns have come down, even the crown of your glory. |
| Jeremiah 31:31 | “Behold, the days come,” says Yahweh, “that I will make a new covenant with the house of Israel, and with the house of Judah, |
| Jeremiah 31:34 | They will no longer each teach his neighbor, and every man teach his brother, saying, ‘Know Yahweh;’ for they will all know me, from their least to their greatest,” says Yahweh, “for I will forgive their iniquity, and I will remember their sin no more.” |
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What the Commentators Say
11 public-domain commentaries, condensed into plain language.
Adam Clarke's Commentary Methodist/Wesleyan 1826
Clarke notes that the secret of the Lord refers to a hidden assembly: those who fear God have a church within their own home. He also highlights that God reveals His covenant to them, showing the great blessings prepared for those who love Him, some understood as the covenant of redemption through Christ.
Barnes' Notes on the Bible Protestant 1832
Barnes argues that the Hebrew word behind "secret" carries the idea of intimate friendship, like a close circle sharing private counsel. Those who fear God are admitted into this kind of closeness with Him. As a result, He gives them genuine understanding of His covenant and its provisions for their salvation.
Calvin's Commentaries Reformed 1564
Calvin's distinctive point is that David's act of lifting up his soul means he refuses to look anywhere else for help, unlike the ungodly who waver between God and the world. The psalmist directs every desire and prayer to God alone, making this the essence of sincere prayer.
Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges Anglican 1880
The Cambridge Bible Schools points out that the Hebrew word translated as "secret" carries the idea of intimate friendship or confidential fellowship. For those who fear God, He shares His personal counsel and makes them experience the meaning of His covenant in ever deeper measure.
Geneva Bible Notes Reformed 1599
The Geneva note stresses that God's hidden counsel is shown only to those who truly revere Him. This revelation is not abstract knowledge but is given through His covenant, which directly grants understanding to the faithful.
Gill's Exposition of the Bible Baptist 1748
Gill identifies several kinds of divine secrets that belong to those who fear God: His hidden purposes, providences, love, communion, gospel mysteries, and covenant. What distinguishes his reading is the cumulative scope — the Lord makes known to His people everything from eternal decrees to the fellowship of His presence.
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Commentary Protestant 1871
JFB explains that the blessing in view flows directly from the believer's communion with God. Those who enjoy this close relationship with Him learn the terms of His gracious pardon, a knowledge that comes only through such fellowship.
Keil & Delitzsch OT Commentary Protestant 1876
Keil-Delitzsch stresses that the Hebrew word translated "secret" or "counsel" (sod) literally means being pressed closely together for confidential communication. God's covenant is not merely information He gives but an intimate, shared experience that those who fear Him come to know firsthand.
Lange's Commentary Reformed 1857
Lange sees the alphabetical structure of this psalm not as a loose collection of prayers but as a deliberate progression, moving from personal petition through confession and appeal to God's character, then rising to confident expectation and finally to intercession for all Israel. The core thought that runs through every phase is that God helps the pious.
Matthew Henry's Commentary Reformed/Presbyterian 1710
Matthew Henry sees the promises of God as both the foundation for prayer and the present answer to it. A prayer made according to the promise can be read as already returned, and a sinner's plea for pardon is never out of place because sin mingles with every action.
Wesley's Explanatory Notes Methodist/Wesleyan 1754
The secret - His love and favour, which is called his secret, Job 29:4 Prov 3:32 , because it is known to none but him that enjoyeth it. Will shew - He will make them clearly to understand it, both its duties and its blessings; neither of which ungodly men rightly understand.