Matthew 1:25 Meaning: What 'Until' and 'Firstborn' Mean
and didn’t know her sexually until she had given birth to her firstborn son. He named him Jesus.
And knew her not till she had brought forth her firstborn son: and he called his name JESUS.
and knew her not till she had brought forth a son: and he called his name JESUS.
and did not know her till she brought forth her son--the first-born, and he called his name Jesus.
and knew her not until she had brought forth her firstborn son: and he called his name Jesus.
Meaning in one sentence
Understand the meaning of 'until' and 'firstborn' in Matthew 1:25. The verse affirms the virgin birth and leaves the rest open.
Context
Matthew closes his account of Jesus' birth with a quiet act of obedience. An angel has told Joseph in a dream that Mary's child is from the Holy Spirit, and that he must name the boy Jesus. The verses leading up to this one show Joseph's struggle and his decision to believe. Here at the end, he takes Mary as his wife, refrains from intimacy until the birth, and gives the child the name the angel commanded. The genealogy and the scandal give way to a simple, faithful man doing what God said.
Key Words
Two Greek words carry the weight of the questions readers bring to this verse. The first is heōs, the word behind “until.” In the Bible, this word often marks the time up to an event without saying what happened after. For example, 2 Samuel 6:23 says Michal had no child until the day of her death, no one reads that as meaning she had children later. The word itself does not force a change; it only tells us that up to a certain point, something did not happen.
The second word is prōtotokos, “firstborn.” This was a legal term in Israel for the child who first opened the womb, whether or not other children followed (Exodus 13:2). So the verse protects two things: that Jesus was Mary’s first child, and that he was born before any marital union took place. The text settles the virgin birth, but it does not settle the debate about later children. Both sides of that question read the same words and come to different conclusions, which tells us the verse means to teach something else: Joseph obeyed, God’s plan moved forward, and the Savior received his name.
How Christians Read This Verse
Christians across traditions agree that this verse clearly teaches Mary was a virgin when Jesus was conceived and born. That much is essential. But they differ on what came after. Catholics and Orthodox hold that Mary remained a virgin for the rest of her life. They see the words “until” and “firstborn” as consistent with that view, pointing to Joseph’s respect for God’s unique work in Mary. Many Protestants understand that Joseph and Mary eventually lived as husband and wife, and that the brothers of Jesus mentioned in the Gospels were Mary’s later children. Calvin, Wesley, and the Jamieson-Fausset-Brown commentary all note that the text does not force either conclusion. Both sides seek to be faithful to Scripture, and neither denies the miracle of the virgin birth.
A common misunderstanding
A common misreading is that the word “until” in this verse proves Joseph and Mary had marital relations after Jesus was born. In fact, heōs (until) does not carry that meaning. It describes what did not happen before the birth, but it says nothing about what happened afterward. The same is true of “firstborn”, it identifies Jesus as the first child, but it does not require that there were more. The verse protects the virgin birth, not the later question.
Living This Out
Joseph did not need to have everything figured out. He received a hard word, his fiancée was pregnant, and the child was not his, and he chose to trust. That is what this verse asks of you this week: when God’s plan makes no sense by your calculations, you can still take the next step he puts in front of you. Joseph took Mary home. He waited. He named the baby Jesus. Each of those actions was small and concrete. You do not need to solve every mystery. You only need to do what God has already told you to do. The name Jesus means “he saves.” You can hold onto that today, whether or not you understand everything else.
Main takeaway: Joseph's quiet obedience protected the virgin birth and gave Jesus his name, reminding us that God's plans often require our trust before we understand.
For Families
For ages 5, 8
Joseph listened to God and did what the angel said. He did not live with Mary as her husband until after Jesus was born. He gave Jesus his name, just like God asked.
For ages 9, 12
Joseph had a big decision. His fiancée was going to have a baby, and he knew it wasn’t his. But an angel told him the baby was from God. Joseph chose to believe and obey. He waited to be married to Mary until after Jesus was born. That took a lot of trust. Sometimes we have to obey God before we understand why. Joseph’s obedience made way for Jesus to come into the world just as God planned.
Questions People Ask
Does 'until' in Matthew 1:25 prove Mary had other children?
No. The Greek word heōs marks the time up to the birth but does not comment on what happened afterward. Many Bible verses use 'until' the same way (e.g., 2 Samuel 6:23). It protects the virgin birth, but it does not settle the later question.
Does 'firstborn son' imply Mary had more children?
Not necessarily. In the Bible, 'firstborn' was a legal term for the first child to open the womb, even if no other children were born (Exodus 13:2). It tells us Jesus was Mary's first child, but it does not require that there were others.
Why did Joseph wait to have marital relations with Mary?
Joseph obeyed the angel's message that Mary's child was from the Holy Spirit. By waiting until after the birth, he honored the unique nature of Jesus' conception and ensured no one would question the virgin birth. His restraint was an act of faith and protection.
What is the significance of Joseph naming the baby Jesus?
The name Jesus means 'the Lord saves.' By giving this name, Joseph publicly claimed the child as his own under Jewish law and fulfilled the angel's command. The naming connects Jesus to his mission: to save his people from their sins (Matthew 1:21).
How does Matthew 1:25 connect to the virgin birth prophecy?
The verse directly fulfills Isaiah 7:14, quoted in Matthew 1:23: 'Behold, the virgin shall be with child, and shall give birth to a son.' By stating that Joseph had no union with Mary before the birth, Matthew confirms that Jesus was born of a virgin, as prophesied.
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