II Corinthians 2:1 · Bible study
2 Corinthians 2:1 Commentary: Determined Not to Come in Sorrow
Greek · 11 what the commentators say
Meaning in one sentence
Paul explains why he postponed his visit: he chose to wait rather than cause mutual grief. A study of his pastoral wisdom in discipline and restoration.
Research Summary
- Meaning: Paul’s resolved decision to delay his visit to avoid mutual sorrow, prioritizing repentance over confrontation.
- Key words: Ἔκρινα (aorist, decisive judgment); ἐμαυτῷ (dative, for his own sake); ἐν λύπῃ (in grief, mutual sorrow).
- Main debate: Whether “again” refers to an unrecorded second sorrowful visit or a repeated sorrowful experience.
- Theological theme: Pastoral patience; loving discipline; the priority of restoration over punishment.
- Best use: Teaching on pastoral care, church discipline, and the wisdom of timing in difficult conversations.
Translation Comparison
BSB Berean Standard Bible 2020
So I made up my mind not to make another painful visit to you.
WEB World English Bible 2000
But I determined this for myself, that I would not come to you again in sorrow.
KJV King James Version 1769
But I determined this with myself, that I would not come again to you in heaviness.
ASV American Standard Version 1901
But I determined this for myself, that I would not come again to you with sorrow.
YLT Young's Literal Translation 1898
And I decided this to myself, not again to come in sorrow unto you,
Darby Darby Bible 1890
But I have judged this with myself, not to come back to you in grief.
Douay-Rheims Douay-Rheims Bible 1899
But I determined this with myself, to come to you again in sorrow.
Translations in other languages (10 available)
ESTO pues determiné para conmigo, no venir otra vez á vosotros con tristeza.
Porém decidi isto mesmo comigo, de não mais vir até vós com tristeza.
Je résolus donc en moi-même de ne pas retourner chez vous dans la tristesse.
Ich dachte aber solches bei mir, daß ich nicht abermals in Traurigkeit zu euch käme.
Maar ik heb dit bij mijzelven voorgenomen, dat ik niet wederom in droefheid tot u komen zou.
Io avevo dunque meco stesso determinato di non venire a voi per rattristarvi una seconda volta.
A postanowiłem to u siebie, abym znowu nie przyszedł z zasmuceniem do was.
Итак я рассудил сам в себе не приходить к вам опять с огорчением.
我自己 定了 主意 再 到 你們那裡去，必須大家沒有 憂愁。
But it was my decision for myself, not to come again to you with sorrow.
Verse in Context
Original Language (Koine Greek)
New Testament · Koine Greek · II Corinthians 2:1
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Scholars' Consensus
Commentators agree that in this verse Paul gives the real reason he delayed his visit to Corinth. He had made a deliberate decision (Ἔκρινα, aorist, a decisive, settled resolve) not to come to them ἐν λύπῃ, “in grief,” meaning mutual sorrow. The dative ἐμαυτῷ (translated “for myself” by the Revised Version, following Vincent and Lange) is an affectionate touch: as if he took the resolution for his own sake, not wanting to experience what would cause pain to the church. Calvin insists the verb should be rendered in the pluperfect, “I had determined”, because Paul is explaining his prior intention when they accused him of fickleness. The main point of unity: Paul’s pastoral strategy was to spare the church by sending a letter (2 Cor 2:4) rather than coming in person to wield the rod of discipline (1 Cor 4:21). He wanted to give them time to repent so his visit could bring joy, not sorrow. As Barnes notes, “he resolved not to come to them, if he could avoid it, with severity.” Clarke adds that because of the scandals among them, Paul could not see them comfortably, so he waited until those evils were put away.
How settled is the interpretation?
Interpretive difficulty: Medium
Main views:
- Second sorrowful visit theory: πάλιν modifies 'come' — Paul had already made a difficult visit (besides the founding visit) and was determined not to repeat it (Jamieson-Fausset-Brown, Vincent, 2 Cor 13:2).
- Second sorrowful experience theory: πάλιν modifies 'in sorrow' — Paul’s first sorrowful experience was his severe letter; he would not come in person to cause sorrow again (Gill, Cambridge Bible).
- No prior sorrowful visit needed: The sense is simply that Paul would not come at all in a state of grief; 'again' is incidental to the whole phrase (Lange).
What is clear: Paul deliberately chose to wait rather than visit under circumstances that would cause mutual grief, showing his pastoral commitment to restoration over immediate confrontation.
What Scholars Agree and Debate
| Topic | Agreed | Debated |
|---|---|---|
| The meaning of 'again' (πάλιν) | Paul resolved not to come to the Corinthians in sorrow a second time, whether that sorrow came through a previous letter or a previous visit. | Some interpreters (e.g., Jamieson-Fausset-Brown, Vincent) argue that Paul had paid an unrecorded second visit that was sorrowful; others (e.g., Gill, Cambridge Bible) say the 'again' refers to the sorrow caused by his first letter, which he did not want to repeat in person. |
| The dative ἐμαυτῷ: 'with myself' or 'for myself'? | The dative modifies how Paul made his determination, a personal, internal decision. | Older translations (KJV) render it 'with myself,' stressing private deliberation. Recent versions (WEB, ASV, Rev.) read 'for myself,' emphasizing that Paul made the decision for his own good or peace, a nuance Vincent calls 'affectionate tact.' Lange supports the dative of advantage. |
| Whose sorrow is meant by λύπῃ? | The sorrow is mutual: Paul would have grieved the church and would have been grieved himself (see 2 Cor 2:2). | Wesley says the sorrow is 'either on account of the particular offender, or of the church in general.' Calvin and the Cambridge Bible see it primarily as the sorrow Paul would cause them by coming in severity; Vincent notes the immediate context favors the sorrow his coming would bring to the church. |
Historical & Cultural Context
Paul first visited Corinth around AD 50, planting the church and staying eighteen months (Acts 18:1, 18). After he left, problems arose: divisions, immorality, and a man living with his father’s wife (1 Cor 5). Paul wrote the letter known as 1 Corinthians to address these issues, promising another visit (1 Cor 16:5, 7). But he changed his plans, provoking accusations of inconsistency (2 Cor 1:17).
This verse sits within Paul’s defense of that change. The larger context (2 Cor 1:23, 2:11) shows he stayed away to “spare” them. In Mediterranean culture, a patron or leader’s visit carried weight; a visit made in anger or sorrow would bring shame on the community. Paul knew that if he came while the church was still in its disordered state, he would be forced to exercise public discipline, which would cause grief to them and to himself. Instead he wrote the “severe letter” (2 Cor 7:8, 12), likely delivered by Titus, to call them to repentance from a distance.
The word “again” (πάλιν) has sparked debate. Some interpreters take it with “come”, “that I would not come again to you in sorrow”, implying Paul had already made one sorrowful visit. Commentators like Jamieson-Fausset-Brown and Vincent suppose a previously unrecorded visit during which Paul had to confront sin. Others, like Gill and the Cambridge Bible, connect “again” to “in sorrow,” reading Paul’s intention as “not to come in sorrow a second time” (the first being his letter, which caused them grief). The ambiguity aside, all sides agree Paul was prioritizing peace and the long-term health of the congregation over his own desire for a quick resolution.
Textual Notes
The consulted sources note no significant manuscript variants for 2 Corinthians 2:1. The Greek text is firmly established. The main textual difference in English translations is the rendering of the dative ἐμαυτῷ (with myself / for myself) and the placement of the adverb πάλιν (again), but these are interpretive choices, not textual variants.
Reception History
This verse has been read across church history as a model for pastoral restraint. In the patristic period, Chrysostom praised Paul’s delicacy, he did not want to shame the Corinthians further. Medieval commentators saw it as an example of the virtue of patience in correction: a bishop should correct not from anger but from love. Reformation-era writers like Calvin and the Geneva Bible emphasized that Paul’s delay was no sign of indecision but of godly prudence. In modern pastoral theology, 2 Corinthians 2:1 is often cited in discussions of church discipline and the timing of difficult conversations. The verse appears in hymnody by implication: “Not in sorrow, but in joy he comes”, though no specific hymn title is universally attached. Evangelical traditions point to it when teaching that discipline must always aim at restoration, not retribution.
Preaching This Verse
Three-point outline
- Resolve before reaction. Paul “determined” (ἔκρινα), a settled judgment, not a whim. His absence was not indecision but deliberate strategy. In pastoral leadership, what looks like delay is often waiting on repentance.
- Sorrow is mutual. Paul would not come “in sorrow” because he knew his sorrow would become theirs. Discipline in the church touches the whole body. The leader shares the pain he must confront.
- The goal is restoration. Paul’s chosen tool was a letter, not a rod (1 Cor 4:21). He wrote with tears to evoke godly grief, not to crush. The endgame was joy, that the church would repent and they could rejoice together.
Five-point outline
- A needed explanation: Paul answers critics who called him fickle. His change of plans had a reason: love.
- A personal decision: “For myself”, Paul takes ownership of the choice. He is not blaming circumstances or delays.
- A painful context: The Corinthians had not dealt with sin. Coming in that state would bring grief to everyone.
- A patient method: Paul writes a letter instead of visiting. He gives them time to respond to his words before facing his presence.
- A hopeful outcome: Sorrow transforms into shared joy when repentance happens (2 Cor 7:9, 10). Paul was betting on that transformation.
Illustration hooks
- Hard conversations in marriage: A spouse who says “I need time before we talk about this” is not avoiding, they are choosing a better moment, wanting reconciliation not just resolution.
- A teacher’s waiting: A math teacher who gives a struggling student extra time before the test, hoping they will practice and succeed, rather than letting them fail immediately.
- Medical waiting rooms: A doctor who schedules a follow-up not because the patient is well, but to see if the treatment is working before prescribing surgery.
Questions your congregation is asking
- “If Paul had authority, why didn’t he just show up and fix things?”
- “When is it right to delay a difficult conversation or confrontation?”
- “How do I know if my discomfort with a situation is a reason to act or a reason to wait?”
Leading a Discussion
Paul’s decision not to visit Corinth “in sorrow” is a window into his pastoral heart. He could have come as a disciplinarian, but he chose the slower path of the letter. This passage invites us to consider how we handle confrontation in the church, in families, and in friendships. Do we rush to resolution, or do we allow space for repentance?
Discussion questions
- Read 2 Cor 2:1 aloud. What stands out about Paul’s tone here, is he defensive, affectionate, or something else?
- Paul says he determined this “for myself.” What does that phrase suggest about his motives?
- The word “again” is unclear, does it refer to a previous sorrowful visit or a sorrowful letter? Why might Paul leave that detail open?
- How does Paul’s approach differ from a leader who insists on immediate confrontation or a leader who avoids conflict altogether?
- What does this verse teach us about the relationship between love and discipline in Christian community?
- Think of a time someone gave you space to change rather than forcing an issue. How did that affect you?
- How can your church apply Paul’s principle of delaying action when it might cause unnecessary grief, without becoming avoidant?
Word Study
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Cross-References
Source: Treasury of Scripture Knowledge (TSK, public domain)
| Acts 11:29 | As any of the disciples had plenty, each determined to send relief to the brothers who lived in Judea; |
| Acts 15:2 | Therefore when Paul and Barnabas had no small discord and discussion with them, they appointed Paul, Barnabas, and some others of them to go up to Jerusalem to the apostles and elders about this question. |
| Acts 15:37 | Barnabas planned to take John, who was called Mark, with them also. |
| I Corinthians 2:2 | For I determined not to know anything among you except Jesus Christ and him crucified. |
| I Corinthians 4:21 | What do you want? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness? |
| I Corinthians 5:3 | For I most certainly, as being absent in body but present in spirit, have already, as though I were present, judged him who has done this thing. |
| II Corinthians 1:15 | In this confidence, I was determined to come first to you, that you might have a second benefit, |
| II Corinthians 1:17 | When I therefore planned this, did I show fickleness? Or the things that I plan, do I plan according to the flesh, that with me there should be the “Yes, yes” and the “No, no?” |
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What the Commentators Say
11 public-domain commentaries, condensed into plain language.
Adam Clarke's Commentary Methodist/Wesleyan 1826
Clarke explains that Paul delayed his visit not because he changed his mind lightly, but because the scandals in Corinth would have made any meeting painful. Paul therefore waited to return only when he had reason to believe those problems had been resolved.
Barnes' Notes on the Bible Protestant 1832
Barnes explains that Paul's decision not to visit Corinth was an act of love, not fickleness. He resolved to avoid a painful confrontation, choosing instead to send a letter that could correct the problems first. His hope was that when he finally came, the visit would bring mutual joy rather than grief.
Calvin's Commentaries Reformed 1564
Calvin argues that the chapter break at this point confuses Paul’s meaning. He insists the Greek verb should be read as "I had determined," not "I have determined," because Paul is explaining his earlier intention, before the delay, to spare them sorrow by staying away until they repented.
Cambridge Bible for Schools and Colleges Anglican 1880
Cambridge Bible notes that Paul's decision about his visit was not about personal comfort but the spiritual good of the Corinthians. He resolved that his second visit would not be a sorrowful one for either side, and the "heaviness" belongs to both the apostle and the church alike.
Geneva Bible Notes Reformed 1599
Bvt I determined thus in my selfe, that I would not come againe to you in heauinesse.
Gill's Exposition of the Bible Baptist 1748
Gill notes that Paul determined in his own mind not to return to Corinth in heaviness again. The apostle chose to delay his visit so the Corinthians could repent beforehand, turning what might have been a sorrowful confrontation into a joyful reunion.
Jamieson-Fausset-Brown Commentary Protestant 1871
JFB reads Paul's decision not to visit Corinth again in heaviness as evidence that he had already made one sorrowful visit there. The "heaviness" was mutual: Paul grieved them, and they grieved him. So Paul postponed his visit to spare both himself and them from repeating that painful experience.
Lange's Commentary Reformed 1857
Lange emphasizes that Paul's decision to avoid a sorrowful visit was as much for his own sake as for theirs, using a thoughtful Greek construction that means "for myself." He explains that Paul's severity in writing had a loving purpose: to spare them further pain. Discipline must shift to comfort once repentance appears, or Satan gains advantage.
Matthew Henry's Commentary Reformed/Presbyterian 1710
Henry notes Paul's pastoral wisdom in choosing not to visit Corinth when that would only bring sorrow to both sides. The apostle's prior letter was written precisely to prevent a painful confrontation, aiming instead for a mutual joy that would benefit the whole church.
Vincent's Word Studies Evangelical 1887
Vincent draws attention to Paul's careful choice of words. Saying "to myself" reveals the apostle's tact, putting the decision as if it served his own preference. The phrase "with sorrow" describes not Paul's own distress, but the grief his presence would bring to the church he was postponing visiting.
Wesley's Explanatory Notes Methodist/Wesleyan 1754
Wesley notes that the grief mentioned can be directed at two possible objects: either toward the specific offender who caused trouble, or toward the whole church affected by the situation. He leaves both possibilities open without choosing between them.