בֶּן־אוֹנִ֑י (ben-o.ni)
ben-o.ni
Ben-oni
N:N-M-PQuick Reference
- Language
- Biblical Hebrew
- Testament
- Old Testament
- Occurrences
- 1 verses
- Root
- —
- Part of speech
- N:N-M-P
Word Overview
The phrase ben-oni literally means "son of my sorrow" or "son of my trouble." It appears only once in the Hebrew Bible, recorded in Genesis 35:18 as the name Rachel gave to her youngest son on her deathbed. The name reflects the intense pain and danger she experienced during childbirth, serving as a raw, emotional label for the child who arrived at great personal cost.
Despite this somber origin, the name was not used long-term. Jacob, the father, renamed the boy Benjamin, which carries a more positive meaning of "son of the right hand" or "son of strength." This change shifted the identity from one defined by maternal grief to one defined by paternal blessing and future promise, illustrating how names in Scripture often carry theological weight beyond their literal translation.
Based on public-domain lexicons (Strong's, Thayer, Gesenius, Brown-Driver-Briggs and others).
What This Word Means for Your Faith
The name Ben-oni is recorded once, on a deathbed. Rachel, dying, calls her newborn “son of my sorrow.” That Hebrew phrase holds the weight of a mother’s agony. It names the moment honestly: this child came at a cost she would not survive. Scripture does not soften the grief. It lets the raw word remain, a witness that faith and pain can coexist.
But the story does not end with Rachel’s voice. Jacob renames the child Benjamin, “son of the right hand” or “son of strength.” That change is not denial. It recognizes that God can wrap the hardest beginnings inside a larger grace. The boy who began as a reminder of loss becomes the beloved youngest son, a tribal head, part of the family through whom blessing would come. When sorrow feels like the final word, remember: God keeps writing the story.
How it's translated
How this word is rendered word-by-word in the 1 verses where it appears, by frequency.
- Oni1×
- Ben-1×
Forms in the text
The inflected forms of this word as they appear in Scripture, by frequency.
- בֶּן\־1×
- אוֹנִ֑י1×
Key Verses
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Genesis 35:18
As her soul was departing (for she died), she named him Benoni, but his father named him Benjamin.
Rachel’s dying cry etches her pain into the child’s original name, contrasting with Jacob’s immediate renaming that shifts identity from grief to blessing.