Deuteronomy 22:13-21 Meaning: Justice for the Wrongly Accused Wife
13If any man takes a wife, and goes in to her, hates her,
14accuses her of shameful things, gives her a bad name, and says, “I took this woman, and when I came near to her, I didn’t find in her the tokens of virginity;”
15then the young lady’s father and mother shall take and bring the tokens of the young lady’s virginity to the elders of the city in the gate.
16The young lady’s father shall tell the elders, “I gave my daughter to this man as his wife, and he hates her.
17Behold, he has accused her of shameful things, saying, ‘I didn’t find in your daughter the tokens of virginity;’ and yet these are the tokens of my daughter’s virginity.” They shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city.
18The elders of that city shall take the man and chastise him.
19They shall fine him one hundred shekels of silver, and give them to the father of the young lady, because he has given a bad name to a virgin of Israel. She shall be his wife. He may not put her away all his days.
20But if this thing is true, that the tokens of virginity were not found in the young lady,
21then they shall bring out the young lady to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done folly in Israel, to play the prostitute in her father’s house. So you shall remove the evil from among you.
13If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,
14And give occasions of speech against her, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came to her, I found her not a maid:
15Then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel’s virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate:
16And the damsel’s father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;
17And, lo, he hath given occasions of speech against her, saying, I found not thy daughter a maid; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter’s virginity. And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city.
18And the elders of that city shall take that man and chastise him;
19And they shall amerce him in an hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days.
20But if this thing be true, and the tokens of virginity be not found for the damsel:
21Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father’s house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you.
13If any man take a wife, and go in unto her, and hate her,
14and lay shameful things to her charge, and bring up an evil name upon her, and say, I took this woman, and when I came nigh to her, I found not in her the tokens of virginity;
15then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel’s virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate;
16and the damsel’s father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man to wife, and he hateth her;
17and, lo, he hath laid shameful things to her charge, saying, I found not in thy daughter the tokens of virginity; and yet these are the tokens of my daughter’s virginity. And they shall spread the garment before the elders of the city.
18And the elders of that city shall take the man and chastise him;
19and they shall fine him a hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath brought up an evil name upon a virgin of Israel: and she shall be his wife; he may not put her away all his days.
20But if this thing be true, that the tokens of virginity were not found in the damsel;
21then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the harlot in her father’s house: so shalt thou put away the evil from the midst of thee.
13`When a man taketh a wife, and hath gone in unto her, and hated her,
14and laid against her actions of words, and brought out against her an evil name, and said, This woman I have taken, and I draw near unto her, and I have not found in her tokens of virginity:
15`Then hath the father of the damsel--and her mother--taken and brought out the tokens of virginity of the damsel unto the elders of the city in the gate,
16and the father of the damsel hath said unto the elders, My daughter I have given to this man for a wife, and he doth hate her;
17and lo, he hath laid actions of words, saying, I have not found to thy daughter tokens of virginity--and these are the tokens of the virginity of my daughter! and they have spread out the garment before the elders of the city.
18`And the elders of that city have taken the man, and chastise him,
19and fined him a hundred silverlings, and given to the father of the damsel, because he hath brought out an evil name on a virgin of Israel, and she is to him for a wife, he is not able to send her away all his days.
20`And if this thing hath been truth--tokens of virginity have not been found for the damsel--
21then they have brought out the damsel unto the opening of her father's house, and stoned her have the men of her city with stones, and she hath died, for she hath done folly in Israel, to go a-whoring in her father's house; and thou hast put away the evil thing out of thy midst.
13If a man take a wife, and go in unto her and hate her,
14and charge her with things for scandalous talk, and cause an evil name against her to be spread abroad, and say, This woman have I taken, and I came in unto her, and I did not find her a virgin;
15then shall the father of the damsel, and her mother, take and bring forth the tokens of the damsel's virginity unto the elders of the city in the gate;
16and the damsel's father shall say unto the elders, I gave my daughter unto this man as wife, and he hates her;
17and behold, he charges her with things for scandalous talk, saying, I found not thy daughter a virgin; and here are the tokens of my daughter's virginity. And they shall spread the cloth before the elders of the city.
18And the elders of that city shall take the man and chastise him;
19and they shall fine him a hundred shekels of silver, and give them unto the father of the damsel, because he hath caused an evil name to be spread abroad against a virgin in Israel. And she shall remain his wife: he may not put her away all his days.
20But if this thing is true, [and] virginity hath not been found with the damsel;
21then they shall bring out the damsel unto the entrance of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought infamy in Israel, committing fornication in her father's house; and thou shalt put evil away from thy midst.
Meaning in one sentence
This law shows God's concern for a wife's reputation, punishing false accusations and protecting the innocent while upholding the seriousness of purity
Context
Deuteronomy sits at the end of Israel's wilderness journey. Moses is preparing the people to enter the Promised Land, and he gives them specific laws for living as God's covenant community. Chapter 22 contains a collection of regulations covering everything from caring for a neighbor's lost animal to proper dress. In the middle of these laws, verses 13-21 address a painful situation: a husband who publicly accuses his new wife of premarital unfaithfulness. The law provides a legal process to determine the truth. It protects the woman if she is innocent, and it holds the man accountable if he has lied. It also prescribes a severe penalty if the woman is found guilty. This passage shows that God cares deeply about truth, justice, and the honor of every person, especially the vulnerable.
Key Words
The word translated "virginity" in verse 14 is the Hebrew word b'tulim. It appears in the plural, meaning "virginities" or the signs of virginity. This was the physical evidence that parents could present to the elders to prove their daughter's innocence. The term itself does not carry shame, but rather points to a woman's honor in that culture.
The phrase "occasions of speech" or "shameful things" in verse 14 comes from the words alilot d'varim. Alilot means deeds or practices, and d'varim means words. Together they describe fabricated stories, false accusations designed to damage a woman's name. The law treats these "deeds of words" as serious offenses.
The verb "hate" (sane) appears in verse 13 and again in verse 16. In this context, it may not refer to emotional hatred but to a legal stance of rejection. The man is publicly disowning his wife. By using this word, the law acknowledges the reality of broken relationships while still providing a path to justice.
How Christians Read This Verse
Reformed commentator John Calvin saw this law as God's provision to protect innocent young women from false accusations and to ensure that the guilty did not escape. Matthew Henry, a Presbyterian minister, emphasized the punishment of the man who slandered his wife, noting that he could never divorce her, which served as a lasting consequence for his lie. Other readers, including some Anglicans, have observed that the law reflects the low status of women at the time, while still showing a concern for truth. Across traditions, Christians agree that this passage underscores the seriousness of false testimony and God's care for the justice due to every person, especially the vulnerable.
A common misunderstanding
Some readers think this law is primarily about proving a woman's virginity. In fact, the underlying concern is justice. The law creates a process to protect a woman from a false accusation. If the man lied, he was fined and could never divorce her. The physical evidence is part of that process, but the heart of the law is accountability for slander and protection of the innocent.
Living This Out
This passage asks us to take our words seriously. A false accusation, even a careless remark about someone's character, can do lasting harm. Before you repeat a rumor or voice a complaint, ask yourself: is this true? Is it kind? Is it necessary? The law also reminds those who have been wrongly accused that God sees their situation. He is the defender of the innocent. In your church and community, you can be a voice for the person being talked about unfairly. It may cost you something, but it honors God.
Main takeaway: God's law protects the wrongly accused and holds slanderers accountable, showing His deep concern for truth, justice, and human dignity.
For Families
For ages 5, 8
God wants people to tell the truth. When someone says something bad about another person that isn't true, it hurts. This law shows that God cares about protecting people's good name.
For ages 9, 12
In ancient Israel, a man could accuse his wife of something shameful, but God made a law to check if it was true. If the man lied, he was punished and could never divorce her. This teaches us that false accusations are serious, and God defends the innocent. It also reminds us to be careful with our words and to speak up for those who are being blamed unfairly.
Questions People Ask
What were the 'tokens of virginity' in Deuteronomy 22?
In the ancient Near East, these tokens were likely a bloodstained cloth from the wedding night, kept by the parents as evidence. The family would present it to the city elders to prove the bride was a virgin at marriage. It was a common practice among many cultures of that time, and the law integrates it into a legal process for justice.
Why was the penalty so severe for the woman if she was guilty?
Marriage was a sacred covenant in Israel, and premarital unfaithfulness was seen as a breach of the community's holiness and a shameful act against her father's house. The law treated it as "folly in Israel", a serious violation that corrupted the family and society. The severe penalty reflected the high stakes of maintaining trust and purity within God's covenant people.
Does this law apply to Christians today?
Christians no longer live under the civil laws of ancient Israel. However, the principles behind this law remain relevant: God cares about truth, justice, and protecting the vulnerable. We are called to speak truth, defend the innocent, and take accusations seriously. The passage invites us to consider how we use our words and whether we stand up for those wrongly accused.
What does 'hate her' in verse 13 mean?
In this context, 'hate' likely means a legal repudiation or rejection rather than simply emotional dislike. The man is publicly disowning his wife by leveling a false accusation against her. The law steps in to hold him accountable and to protect her from being cast aside unjustly. It shows that God takes seriously both the marriage bond and the power of words.
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